• Lycist@lemmy.world
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    20 days ago

    I popped into a voice chat for a game once, and said to the 15 people in the channel “Hey guys”.

    Some lady immediately screamed at me “THERE ARE GIRLS THAT PLAY VIDEO GAMES TOO”…

    Like… ok? “Guys” has been recognized as a gender neutral term since the 80’s lady…

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      20 days ago

      Guys is one of those weird words that’s gender neutral in some cases, and definitely male only in other cases.

      “Fuck those guys” – gender neutral, “those guys” might include women.

      “I only fuck guys” – I’m gay, I don’t fuck women.

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        20 days ago

        The “Only” in the latter example lends exclusivity to the context, and the only word that can be ascribed an exclusion is the word “guys” by interpreting it in a gendered context.

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            19 days ago

            That is the perfect amount of ambiguity that makes linguistics unclear and invalidates my example. Luckily, human language has a mechanisms for solving this: a clarifying question; Could you please clarify what you mean by “guys” in this context?